Some personal news.
Posted: Mon Jan 08, 2024 4:51 pm
Hello everyone, I hope you all had a great Xmas.
I rarely post anything in General Discussion, but now there's something happening in my life which I believe will be of interest to many of you.
As far as I'm aware most quicksand fetishists keep their kink a closely-guarded secret. Whatever aspect of QS you are into, whether you are a sinker or if you like to see others sinking, the chances are that you keep your activities and interests hidden from family, friends and others. That has certainly be the case for me, with not a single person in my life knowing about my quicksand fetish. Not my ex, not my current partner... no one.
To those of you lucky enough to have a spouse/partner who either understands or participates, you are EXCEPTIONALLY fortunate. Lucky you!
Anyway, once before I came into internet contact with a woman who shared my interests and I've already written about that online relationship here.
viewtopic.php?f=10&t=24264
That was over a quarter of a century ago. But last month I 'met' another woman online who seems to be the perfect match for my particular QS tastes. I will refer to her as T. Since then we have exchanged many messages and tentatively and respectfully explored each others interests, inclinations, likes and desires. It looks as if we are well-suited to each other.
T is very submissive and is aroused by fantasies of sinking into deadly quicksand while helplessly bound and gagged. She likes the idea of being unable to stop herself from sinking, unable to scream for help and eventually, being unable to breathe once she goes under. It seems that the act of losing control and submitting, first to a dominant man who binds her and then to the mud itself, unlocks something dark, dangerous and arousing within her.
When I told her that I enjoy these kind of dark desires too she was very pleased. Even more so when I confided that I use Photoshop and similar programs to create images showing bound, gagged and terrified women sinking into quicksand, going under and then drowning. And so our burgeoning cyber relationship has reached a watershed.
After carefully checking with her about the content of the imagery I e-mailed her a small selection of my quicksand + bondage manips yesterday.
She lives in France and so there is a minimal amount of time zone difference between us. Since she and I are already in long-term vanilla relationships there is no possibility that we will ever meet in person. But, if everything pans out as I fervently hope, perhaps we can embark upon a mutually satisfying cyber relationship, where we can explore our fascination with quicksand together, hand in electronic hand, so to speak.
Whichever way things go, for better or for worse, I'll report back here for the interest and enjoyment of my fellow QS lovers.
Thank you,
Redjak.
I rarely post anything in General Discussion, but now there's something happening in my life which I believe will be of interest to many of you.
As far as I'm aware most quicksand fetishists keep their kink a closely-guarded secret. Whatever aspect of QS you are into, whether you are a sinker or if you like to see others sinking, the chances are that you keep your activities and interests hidden from family, friends and others. That has certainly be the case for me, with not a single person in my life knowing about my quicksand fetish. Not my ex, not my current partner... no one.
To those of you lucky enough to have a spouse/partner who either understands or participates, you are EXCEPTIONALLY fortunate. Lucky you!
Anyway, once before I came into internet contact with a woman who shared my interests and I've already written about that online relationship here.
viewtopic.php?f=10&t=24264
That was over a quarter of a century ago. But last month I 'met' another woman online who seems to be the perfect match for my particular QS tastes. I will refer to her as T. Since then we have exchanged many messages and tentatively and respectfully explored each others interests, inclinations, likes and desires. It looks as if we are well-suited to each other.
T is very submissive and is aroused by fantasies of sinking into deadly quicksand while helplessly bound and gagged. She likes the idea of being unable to stop herself from sinking, unable to scream for help and eventually, being unable to breathe once she goes under. It seems that the act of losing control and submitting, first to a dominant man who binds her and then to the mud itself, unlocks something dark, dangerous and arousing within her.
When I told her that I enjoy these kind of dark desires too she was very pleased. Even more so when I confided that I use Photoshop and similar programs to create images showing bound, gagged and terrified women sinking into quicksand, going under and then drowning. And so our burgeoning cyber relationship has reached a watershed.
After carefully checking with her about the content of the imagery I e-mailed her a small selection of my quicksand + bondage manips yesterday.
She lives in France and so there is a minimal amount of time zone difference between us. Since she and I are already in long-term vanilla relationships there is no possibility that we will ever meet in person. But, if everything pans out as I fervently hope, perhaps we can embark upon a mutually satisfying cyber relationship, where we can explore our fascination with quicksand together, hand in electronic hand, so to speak.
Whichever way things go, for better or for worse, I'll report back here for the interest and enjoyment of my fellow QS lovers.
Thank you,
Redjak.