Are there any aspects of this fetish that you don't enjoy?

[SecretDude77]

When I was younger, like high school or so, I always felt so guilty or wrong when I would indulge in self insert scenarios. Like, I should only get off to women in peril. I felt like it was gay to fantasize about myself being sucked down into quicksand (I am most definitely straight).

In college, I kinda got more comfortable with it, like a guilty pleasure thing. But then I discovered the Marizel “Vixen” video…

So yeah I used to dislike my enjoyment of self sinking but then realized it was actually a secondary sub/dom fetish. I know now that I likely fall under the term of “switch”, though personally I don’t need to imagine being there physically to see the girl sink, just the idea of their plight is enough.

[Duncan Edwards]

There's some things that work for other people that don't work for me. Peripheral bits like leather or boots or whatever just seem to get in the way. While my experience has probably been one of the most unusual among all here, I have no complaints. Nature, fate, and insane levels of good fortune have all combined to make a second life that I would have hated to miss.

[Herzeleid]

After giving this subject much thought I've come to the conclusion that there is nothing I don't like about this fetish. I just love to see women playing or sinking in quicksand and mud, which makes me a very happy bunny .

[ghostofmyeyes]

EDITED FOR CONTENT - Sorry but we don't do politics here. There's enough of that everywhere else in the world.

I don't think I've ever dared to seriously imagine having a partner who shares my fetish and at least understands my angles on it. I can't really mourn this, because I have no basis of comparison. I've understood from early on that I'm very unusual.

I dislike that the cinematic quicksand of my dreams is probably impossible to replicate in real life. But who knows, maybe there is a Quicksand Manhattan Project quietly going on in some university basement as we speak, that will change everything.

I find it double-edged that being in a very small niche means that a very small part of society's resources are dedicated to titillating me. There's basically no erotic quicksand-themed ads and propaganda targeting my lustful lizard brain, which is good. There is not an army of romance authors and screenwriters crafting tons of complex lesbian quicksand thrillers for major distribution, which is bad.

[QuickUser]

Cuts. I do this mainly for sensory but cuts are the WORST!

[ayria]

For videos: I'm not into the grim stuff. I also feel like when it's women sinking they're less diverse than what I see in some other kinks.

For doing it myself: Yeah cuts are no fun. Besides that, I think just that I rarely get the chance to do it. It's a niche kink and I haven't yet found a play partner for it. Also going sinking outdoors is ethically problematic (there's plenty of people who'd be against doing any sort of kink in a public place) and legally risky. Sadly I don't have my own garden or even a spare room so a home mud pit isn't an option.

[whizbang18]

To me, this is multi-faced and stems from multiple directions....

In terms of my own preferences, I find it more difficult nowadays to avoid the 'visceral' side of this fetish, one one hand, it's because it brushes with the concept of 'death' and it's counter to my moral compass where I strongly value life, human and non-human alike. On the other hand, getting older has made me at times re-examine this aspect of me, especially when events unfold in the world, or a major celebrity favorite passes away. I frequently dunk Jessica Alba, Jessica Szohr, Sofia Milos, Rachel Skarsten, and Eva Longoria in quicksand pits over the years, more so now. I don't know if this is a dark, subconscious psychological flaw that lurks deep within that loves 'subjugating' women, even if your fully conscious and moral compass hates the idea of these same women being harmed in real life. I remember dunking Aaliyah in quicksand on multiple fakes I made during the early days of the internet but felt absolutely sick when she died in 2001 and I never made any Aaliyah QS fakes ever again, even 25 years later.

Also, I've also sensed an increasing 'purtianism' and 'prudishness' from all across the social/political spectrum where anything remotely sexual or fetishistic is seen as an evil flaw, and it's made me increasingly withdrawn from the world in recent years. I don't know if this is simply me taking into account a different social climate now compared to 2006, or maybe me lashing out in anger....i don't know....I just resent what I perceived as increasing scrutiny of everything about us, from parties across the spectrum......

And sometimes on very rare ocassions, this fetish can cloud my thinking, although it's usually when I refrain for a few days, or when it's aggravated by distress at world events or social unrest situations that make me feel less safe than normal.

Strangely enough, this seems to intersect with other fetishes that involve devouring someone whole, either by quicksand or by various voreaphilia involving slugs, worms, or snakes: I've noticed that all of these, including quicksand seem to revolve around the idea of women (or men to balance things out) being devoured/swallowed whole by something and 'trapped indefinately' in whatever ate/devoured/swallowed them.......

Back in the 2000s before my ugly falling out with Deepsinking, it was quicksand but it's branched out into worm, slug, and clayface-themed absorption vore, and even these, to me are variations on quicksand: they all involve a victim/subject being engulfed and 'imprisoned' inside some entity or organism/substance....

One thing I HATE is anything involving blood or physical injury/damage to skin. I DON'T like burn or lacerations or anything that could cause infections involved with QS.....Just no....

Also, as I've gotten older, my taste in ideal models has shifted away from early to mid 20s and towards late-30s through even early to mid 60s....Perhaps it's being 43, as opposed to 23 and my tastes taking this into account but I find the 'fetishization' of younger models rather 'icky' IMO.....

In the end, I guess one just has to take the bad with the good and enjoy it overall.....

I had a whole bunch of QS works I made after being driven from Deep Sinking but I've long, long lost them, either to old computers going kaput, and/or thumb drives also going kaput between leaving DS and discovering THIS site.....I'm trying to reignite the spark I've lost on this but it's tough....

[spunkee311]

Watery Mud and the model/actress still going on like its suppose to be thick quicksand.