Duncan Edwards wrote:reisen55 wrote:... That thought bothered me greatly and disburbed me no end...
Look, we're all different. Not just you and me but husbands and wives too. We're not all going to enjoy doing the same thing together all the time. There are things both sexual and otherwise that my wife and I really enjoy together and when we get to share them it's great. I do not expect, nor should you, that your wife would enjoy participating in or even understanding a very personal sexual fetish that you are uniquely wired for. Sex in a married relationship is very important but it won't always be perfect just like anything else. She may not say it but I have no doubt that there are things she might enjoy that you don't derive the same pleasure from either. The important thing is that you are sharing a life together and not just a particular sexual experience.
Don't fret.
Exactly