SarahMichelle wrote:What is it about quicksand/mud that you enjoy so much? What do you personally get from either being in it or watching others in it? Is it purely sexual or is it something more? Do you have a significant other that shares your interest? Do you keep this interest of yours private or are you open about it to others publicly? What do you love most about the quicksand models; meaning, looks and behavior portrayed in the videos/photos. (Not specific names)
Hopefully these questions don't come across as offensive or being too nosy. I'm genuinely curious and I feel this information can help me with sinks.
Thanks in advance for your responses. <3
Sarah,
I'm odd, even in this group. In my younger years, I would get out into the mud at every chance. Now, it's been 2 years since I've done a good sink. I liked the "danger" of it, leftover from seeing people drown in films as a kid, but knowing that drowning wasn't possible without either jumping in head-first or being weighted down. I liked the bondage feel of it, in that I frequently would play in river quicksand or thick clay, both of which are difficult to get out of, once you're in deep. Also, I enjoyed the messiness, in that getting that dirty was not allowed when I was a kid.
Honestly, I'm not much for watching others. I would LOVE to be the guy that happens to find one-or-more 20-50 year old fit women mired in mud, so that I could rescue them, but I've never found anyone stuck, much less an attractive and aroused woman. (sigh...) Most of the short films done have women stepping into a pit that instantly sinks them to at least their knees, and sometimes to their shoulders. I like the sound clay makes when you try to pull your leg out. A pit set up the way I would enjoy would be so thick that a woman couldn't work her way down to cover her shoulders, much less sink out of view, and getting her out again would be such a chore that she'd likely be exhausted and maybe even sore the next day.
My wife actually has a phobia of trying to step where she can't see. We had to walk ashore from a boat once, and a recent storm had stirred the ocean up, so that you could not see through the water. I nearly had to carry her to get her off the boat. Mud is completely out of the question, for her. She does know I enjoy mud, but she won't play with me there.
My father and one friend know about me and mud. I've had a couple of gf's, through the years, that I tried to get to play in the mud with me, but none have. I've had two of them actually come as far as the river where I would play, but neither joined in. (actually, one stayed in the car!)
As for quicksand models, I'm afraid the fact they aren't in thick mud really goes a long way to keep me from enjoying them. If my marriage were open, I think I would still look for a woman to play in the mud with. I would seriously enjoy helping an attractive woman get mud off after a sink. Such is not the case, though, so I haven't looked for a mudlarking buddy. I enjoy the visual of a woman who is nude and standing more than seeing one sinking more than shoulder deep in a pit. (though, if she is splattered or covered in mud while she's nude, that's certainly fine with me!)
I did help with a photoshoot once. It was a fun and interesting experience! My favorite part by far, though, was holding a second water hose to help models rinse off. At one point, one of the mischievous models tried to pull me into the pit, after a shoot was finished. It was difficult not to give in and let that happen, but the rules were set out clearly ahead of time, and such was not allowed. That was the closest I've ever come to being in the mud with a woman. I didn't ask any of the models if they wanted to come out and play in the mud after the last shot of the day. I may have begged them, had I been single. If I had a female friend that actually got turned on by mud, I think that would turn me on to see. (I enjoy being teased) This is the only place I talk about this kink, though.
Bill
It's the liquid courage.
