Heh. I haven't stepped a foot into mud in nearly 5 years. What brought me to this fetish page was not the desire to see women in mud. (I actually enjoy the right woman out of clothes more than I do in mud) What brought me here was wanting to know where to find local mud. Now, I'm thinking that helping Fred get his pits broken back up this spring may be enough of an excuse to get muddy again. (It also takes a lot of work, which will be good exercise)
For me, it was a combination of needing more focus on my career and the emotional turmoil of having my father die that changed things. Me helping Fred for a week was the last thing my father disapproved of while he was alive, so far as I know, aside from the cancer meds not working and making his life hell. I'm starting to get over that now. (and I still enjoy seeing women naked more than seeing them sink) I still have the fantasy of having to follow a "always right" woman through knee deep sticky mud, with her having worn a short skirt such that anytime she leans forward she's showing me her ass, but she's too independent to ask for any help, so I am required to follow her closely but not help... I'd like to see that as a film, with the woman eventually stuck and demanding to be removed from the deep mud. I'd even volunteer to be the much put-upon actor required to follow her!
You can't pin your emotions on anything. No fantasy, no music, and certainly not someone else (even a spouse). Being happy is a decision. You decide what your emotions are. You decide you are/aren't interested in something. As you grow, things can change. That's normal and that's human. If you don't see this as something you are interested in, find something else, either to replace this entirely or to add to this.
Then, when you see any picture/video featuring sinking, you will be able to imagine how that stuff feels, making the impact of what you are viewing that much more powerful! 
