That tragic day resonates highly with my wife and I....
We had been dating for a good five months by that point, enjoying each other and blending our lives together...then the unthinkable happened.
I'd seen my fair share of the horrors the world by that point in my lifetime, but something of *this* magnitude was unthinkable on our shores...and on live television, no less, unfolding before all our eyes as it happened...the world had forever changed. We're still feeling the repercussions today.
Amidst all that tragedy, I formally proposed to Lisa that very day, we were married two months later.
We both took away form it that life is far too short to be taken for granted.
Carpe diem, indeed.
Reisen, I am certain your life has never been the same....my heart goes out to you. I've had a few close shaves in my life, but never of that caliber. God bless, sir.
The darkest hours sometimes can produce some of the most beautiful moments, directly or not....as black as that day was, I will always cherish that aspect of it.
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As a final point I wanted to add a footnote about something I let slide years ago, but bears mentioning here...
I've brought up this story before, and a few befuddled idiots on this forum took it as an opportunity to berate me for having some sort of opportunistic agenda.
I may have been clumsy in how I presented it, but your response was despicable, especially in light of how you consistently toot your own self-absorbed horn, as it were.
My point? Don't judge, and keep your sarcasm to yourself, especially in light of the subject matter, or, at the very least, ask for clarification instead of behaving like a fool.
End of sermon, apologies to those whom it does not apply.