You - well, I think you honestly (subconsciously?) WANT to provoke unpleasantness. Honestly, I think you have issues.
Frankly, this is pretty much the only reason behind incidents and bans concerning any individual member. I call this the "bomb" effect.
User has _________ condition. Fill it in with whatever - homosexuality, bipolar disorder, multiple personalities, delusions of grandeur, anxiety, ultraconservatism, etc. User wants to be accepted into community. User doesn't want to be judged. User doesn't want the community to push the "big red button". User constantly waves the big red button in everyone's face. Button gets pushed. User explodes.
It's not you, your preferences or your conditions that matter. Who you are is of little relevance on the internet. As an online community, we value contributions and interaction. What ticks people off is behaviour. Certain behaviours are viewed as excessive and inappropriate, which causes annoyance and frustration. As many have stated, all we want to do is share our work and our interest without the drama and political BS. We're not interested in past histories.
I'll use myself as an example.
I suffer from depression. It's a sensitive issue. I've come across others on the forum who have also expressed that they have depression. It may be a driving force behind my desire to create works of art. But, let's say I'm new to the forum. My first post is "Hey guys! I'm depressed, and I hope no one holds that against me". I submit a few stories. People like them. "Thanks guys! It means a lot because I'm depressed". I start prefacing all my stories with "This is for all the depressed people out there". I go into another thread and go "Thanks, I've been feeling depressed all day and this made me feel better".
There's a point where someone will say "You're depressed, we get it". Then the bomb effect kicks in. I do the whole "**** THE COMMUNITY YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE" meltdown.
And before someone points out the bias towards anyone with a condition, let's use a completely innocuous example. I also happen to be Asian. I have a preference for Asian women. Quite a few of my stories feature Asian women - it's something I tend to naturally fantasise. Imagine if I start going into threads saying "Hey, we need more ASIAN women in these pictures!", "Could you draw more ASIAN girls?", "Thank you for this ASIAN video! It's so rare to see ASIANS represented this way!" Then when someone points out my obsession with Asians, I go "What the **** racist pig **** THE COMMUNITY IF YOU'RE ASIAN POST SOMEWHERE ELSE **** YOU MAJORITY".
Bottom line is: people don't give you shit because you're gay, manically depressed, Asian, mutant, or whatever. People give you shit if you're annoying.