Postby DangerousWill » Tue Jun 09, 2020 3:09 am
Quicksand is an interesting fantasy, especially because of its cross overs with so many other kinks and fantasies. Its genealogy shares chromosomes with bondage, vore, power play, wam, forced orgasm, damsel in distress and encasement to list but a few. Like vore it was born purely of hollywood and rubbed off on us at a very early age, allowing it to morph into our other sexual desires as we grew up. Humans thrive on what we can't do and we were being told off for being messy years before we were being told sex was bad.
Because of the personal development of each individual we each have a sub branch of kink attached to our kink so opinions and attitudes will always differ.
Personally I like willing sinks of pleasure as it is a sensual fantasy first and foremost however there is significant difference between film and story. With film we are taking external stimulus and programming our libido based upon it. As such i personally don't like the eye contact, begging for help, sink to doom stuff. I like consensual sinking in the same way i like consensual sex.
However, with stories we are able to internalize the stimulus, get in the mind of the characters and feel what they are feeling. Stories do this perfectly but there are some actresses that can pull this off to different extents on film as they describe and tease.
Stories i think go one step further because they contain more than just prose. Quicksand is one giant metaphor. Id say the metaphor is the popping of ones cherry and the feeling of getting in too deep as we enter the scary and exciting world of adulthood, but then I'd be projecting.
The point is externally there are a lot of things we can't do or shouldn't do and this is correct. However, internally they will happen as they always have and there is always a psychological reason for it. A great example would be the rape fantasy. Rape is a disgusting act, no doubt about it. But in the western world where sex outside of marriage has been so taboo, rape fantasies are prevalent. Does it mean all these people want to get raped? No, it is just a vehicle to allow them to fantasize about the pleasure without experiencing the guilt. When you think about the girl sinking into the mud, trying to escape while the predicament traps her and forces her to be turned on, you'll realise this one has also slipped into the genealogy.
The point emphased is that all humans have messed up fantasies and these rarely get in the way of their sex lives. In fact for those willing to break the cultural norms it usualy excels their sex lives. But all humans have fantasies that they play out in their heads that they know would be wrong in real life. But don't get caught up on the act but the reason why you have the act.
When we follow the story of the evil man watching the damsel sink we are sating the animal, rewarding the animus and fulfilling the male side. Just like how we murder in GTA (video games) to satisfy that part of us knowing we'd never do it in real life. When we follow the story of the girl sinking we are sating our insecurities, playing with the anima and worshipping the female. She may die but our anima wont. (Jungian Psychology can be very fascinating)
So when you read about the girl dying don't get caught up on that. Its really a story about a free woman, experiencing all her kinks, getting the best orgasm she has ever had, becoming one with something greater than herself, lovingly taken, free from guilt as the sticky gunge chooses her path, able to finally be her true self, free from worldly burdens and there to be worshipped as the female form, both vulnerable and delicate but devine and great. Capable and powerful but still at the mercy of mother earth and fate. Then you'll realise its not just a sexual kick, but also a profound psychological one as well.