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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby Chimerix » Sat Jun 25, 2016 3:33 pm

Mynock wrote: I would guess the overwhelming majority of the board agrees with your decision.


A lot of people seem to think that. Well, I'll be unsilent for a moment. I couldn't care less if someone else likes scat and brings it up. "Oh, look, they're talking about something I don't like. Lemme skip over that." I do it all the time on numerous subjects, and with more than a few members, and never thought it was onerous.

I realize that this is not a place for free speech. The owners are letting us play in their sandbox and get to make the rules. But, I don't much like seeing that driven home by (what seem to me) pointless restrictions.

This "silent majority" has been referenced many times now. I don't believe it exists. And I'm just saying, lest anyone be thinking of putting a tally mark by my name as they compile this list of the silent constituency, I am not a supporter.
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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby tanya_wam » Sun Jun 26, 2016 3:01 am

Chimerix wrote:
Mynock wrote: I would guess the overwhelming majority of the board agrees with your decision.


A lot of people seem to think that. Well, I'll be unsilent for a moment. I couldn't care less if someone else likes scat and brings it up. "Oh, look, they're talking about something I don't like. Lemme skip over that." I do it all the time on numerous subjects, and with more than a few members, and never thought it was onerous.

I realize that this is not a place for free speech. The owners are letting us play in their sandbox and get to make the rules. But, I don't much like seeing that driven home by (what seem to me) pointless restrictions.

This "silent majority" has been referenced many times now. I don't believe it exists. And I'm just saying, lest anyone be thinking of putting a tally mark by my name as they compile this list of the silent constituency, I am not a supporter.


When I messaged Viridian about this, his argument was very well reasoned and considered, and for that he still earns my respect. But it wasn't just about 'posts I could skip over'. I didn't go seeking out the posts to complain, but it was part of that person's signature and just glimpsing it made me feel sick. I don't know if people are aware that if you 'foe' someone here, it does hide their posts. I didn't, and stumbled across that function by accident before Viridian was able to answer my query about whether such a thing was possible. So I let the matter drop.

I am sorry to see Viridian go. It was nice to hear a voice of reason, even if our views were not the same. :(
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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby Nessie » Sun Jun 26, 2016 9:15 am

tanya_wam wrote:it was part of that person's signature and just glimpsing it made me feel sick.


Scat is unique in that way. There are things I don't like and some of them are here but they don't cause me to cough, gag involuntarily, and scramble for the bathroom.

Fetlife was a real problem for me when they allowed scat. You see, poo looks a bit like some peat bogs do, so guys would see my pics and send friend requests or PMs adorned with photos of themselves (and sometimes their dicks) slathered in feces...

Aaaack! Once, this actually emptied my guts.

Banning it is fine. They have other places to go. It's the Internet!

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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby Mr Mudster » Mon Jun 27, 2016 7:20 am

I've sat on the sidelines watching this ridiculous scenario play out. And, up to now, I've stayed silent on it. But I do have a few things to say on the topic.

First of all, I would wager to say that most, if not all, of the people on this site that actually have had the pleasure of going out and sinking into mud have, at one time or another, experienced sinking into scat. Where do you think that wonderful mud comes from anyway? It is from decaying organic material, some of which likely came out of the south side of a northbound animal! Rabbits, deer, foxes, cows, horses and other animals have taken a crap in those areas, and their contribution has added to our enjoyment. So, to all those whiners that say, "All this scat is nasty! Ewww... take it away now before I puke!" I say this; GROW UP! Did your mommy not tell you that you will someday see things you don't like? And didn't she tell you that you should just turn away and ignore it, because it's not hurting you?

No, I have absolutely NO tolerance for people who preach tolerance for things that they are tolerant toward and cry out for banning the things that they find intolerant!

Now, having said that, I do get grossed out at what I consider 100% scat. Manure pits or, worse, human excrement, disgusts me! But that's what a mouse is for... skipping over the literal "crap" that I don't want to see! If you enjoy it, then go ahead, party on! But if you try and force that on others by putting references to it in every post you make, then you should expect to be chastised by those who moderate this site.

Yes, as has been mentioned in earlier comments, this site belongs to those who created it. If their decision is to ban the open display of topics containing scat, then I wholeheartedly support that. It's not censorship, as some have commented, it's just business. If discussions about, and photos of, scat are offensive to some of the people on this forum, then forbidding the display of topics containing the offensive material just makes good business sense.

Remember this; Dave, Fred and others are not doing this just as a way of seeing sexy, naked girls playing in mud! They are also trying to make a little money in the process as well. And for that they deserve our respect when these difficult decisions need to be made.

And that's all I have to say on this topic.

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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby Fred588 » Mon Jun 27, 2016 7:39 am

Mr Mudster wrote, in part:

"Remember this; Dave, Fred and others are not doing this just as a way of seeing sexy, naked girls playing in mud! They are also trying to make a little money in the process as well. And for that they deserve our respect when these difficult decisions need to be made."

In this he is completely correct. I will point out, however, without any implications as to my own views on the issue, that I played no role whatever in the controversies involved or their resolution.
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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby Nessie » Mon Jun 27, 2016 7:43 am

Mr Mudster wrote:Did your mommy not tell you that you will someday see things you don't like? And didn't she tell you that you should just turn away and ignore it, because it's not hurting you?


That is exactly what I have always done and if it hadn't been banned, I would keep doing it. And I'm not intolerant. I allowed the scat guys to be remain on my Fetlife profile, following my posts, up until the very day scat was banned there. I did that no matter how I felt about it, on the theory that they were harmless and had suffered enough rejection. I turned them down politely when they PM'ed.

However, I still couldn't look at their pictures -- for long, anyway.

What Dave said -- that it just bothers too many people -- is a perfectly legitimate reason. It needn't be any longer and it doesn't have to make sense because fetishes and sexuality don't make any sense anyway.

The business angle counts a lot. You can't have a bunch of stuff on a forum that grosses out too many people because then, people refuse to join and you can't sell anything, and then -- suddenly, one day, you don't even have a forum.

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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby bogbud » Mon Jun 27, 2016 2:36 pm

How many pages does this discussion need?

Another couple cents:
- I believe the vast majority here has never thought about poo while sinking in deep bogs. Do you even know what peat is? That is decaying moss and other plants. Do you think about poo when you lie down on the grass at the park? Just think about all that poo the rabbits, birds, cats and stray-dogs leave behind.
- I believe the vast majority here is not interested in this kind of stuff at all. Was there any comment left under these stories from the user who started this storm that read something like "cool, the relieving herself was the best part"? No? Wow! There were very, very few comments at all and a lot of them were more kind of the opposite.
- The thing that is really annoying is the constant repeating of personal preferences in every story, lots of posts and the users-signature. I do remember a former user who did start every post with "As a gay dude i think...." (or something like that). After the 100th time it just gets annoying and you start to believe it's just trolling.

Anyone else thinks this has been discussed enough?

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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby Mynock » Mon Jun 27, 2016 5:32 pm

I think the poster who spawned this discussion is an obvious troll and you're all just feeding him.
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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby Viridian » Mon Jun 27, 2016 9:07 pm

I agree with banning scat, but the more this is discussed, the fewer valid points are raised. For all I care, I'm for banning it because it is generally considered to be a taboo subject due to the cultural and general 'dirty' connotations of human excrement. However, we have to be careful about how we justify these decisions. The rule change has been arbitrary - that's fine, it's a privately run forum. The principle matters, because it will influence how future decisions are made.

bogbud wrote:- I believe the vast majority here has never thought about poo while sinking in deep bogs. Do you even know what peat is? That is decaying moss and other plants. Do you think about poo when you lie down on the grass at the park? Just think about all that poo the rabbits, birds, cats and stray-dogs leave behind.
- I believe the vast majority here is not interested in this kind of stuff at all. Was there any comment left under these stories from the user who started this storm that read something like "cool, the relieving herself was the best part"? No? Wow! There were very, very few comments at all and a lot of them were more kind of the opposite.
- The thing that is really annoying is the constant repeating of personal preferences in every story, lots of posts and the users-signature. I do remember a former user who did start every post with "As a gay dude i think...." (or something like that). After the 100th time it just gets annoying and you start to believe it's just trolling.


I wasn't sure what the first point was getting at, but I try not to think about it, just as much as I try not to think about where people's hands have been when I shake them. But scat is a fetish, and by nature, fetishes are things that people often can't control or resist. I can't understand the triggers and turn-ons for things that I'm not inclined towards. For some people, seeing a pair of heels is a turn-on. Watching scenes where someone is drowning is a turn-on. Damsels being tied up - and hence the whole detective genre - is a turn-on. Some of these I get, others I don't. I do know that when I trip over something I do have an "interest" in, my brain activity is different to something I won't look over twice. And we're all weak to this. Just look at the way most people respond to the release of a new quicksand video. Jaws dropping, going ga-ga over how hot and sexy someone looks while rolling around in the clay pit or the peat bog. Do most people think of this when they see quicksand?

It's true that most stories written by the user had few responses. Bearing in mind that not all of his writing featured scat (I'm not counting, but a conservative estimate would be 50/50). The lack of comments reflects a few things: firstly, his stories in general were pretty bad, being short, repetitive and lacking anything really interesting; secondly, few threads in the stories forum get many responses in the first place. If we leave out PM2K's courtesy replies, the majority of story threads would be empty. I do believe there is a general deterrence from replying to threads, with the community being reluctant to be critical, combined with bizarrely specific interests in how we enjoy our quicksand. Does the lack of comments mean that certain artistic contributions are bad or disliked, or are we generally only responsive to certain themes?

We've got to be careful when justifying rules based on "majority rules". We haven't run a poll, but I would dare say that the majority of the forum enjoy women in quicksand. The majority are not interested, or at least indifferent, to men in quicksand. The majority are not interested in gay men in quicksand. This is mostly reflective of the current wider community. However, are we banning gay topics because the majority don't like it? We banned specific users whose behaviour crossed the line. The problem is that some users can't control themselves, and often they are bullied to the point where they have to behave aggressively, which then results in the ban and the rest of the community feeling good about themselves. Most of the time, this would have happened anyway, but the rule violations are clear. Troublemakers are dealt with based on their actions, not their interests.

I dispute the labeling of this user as an "obvious troll". His behaviour, to me, is more reflective of someone who has suppressed fetishes - some of which are acceptable, others are not - and therefore he denies his obsession even though he can't control it. In fairness, there are specific obsessions I have that I intuitively include in my work, but over time I've kept them balanced and unobstructive. Except for his signature, he has largely avoided shoving his scat fetish onto others forcefully. He doesn't go into other threads to start up shit, and his fixation is mostly kept to his stories - and because most readers know what to expect, they don't read them. He's been far more open about his fetish for rubber boots and chest waders. And to his credit, he has mostly made the effort to avoid breaking the rules. He didn't publicly promote his off-site work, the interactive threads that he runs have mostly been clean (though not always well organised). It seems, from my perspective, that he's being scapegoated for his interest in scat. We've had far more sinister and malicious trolls.

Mynock wrote:I think the poster who spawned this discussion is an obvious troll and you're all just feeding him.

Numbers wasn't even originally involved. Who spawned this discussion? Beast260 posted the link to a video he found containing minors and no scat. bogbud connected the video to Numbers. Ace brought up the scat fetish. I horrified the community by being involved in an "argument". You posted a meme of a pile of shit.

Who is the troll?
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Re: Quicksand Fans Rules Updated

Postby Mynock » Tue Jun 28, 2016 11:26 am

He put something really gross/controversial in his signature and then attempted to insert same gross/controversial thing into every topic. IDK, to me looks like he was just trying to get a rise out of people.
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