Questioning Your Fetish

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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby SexyMuddyCostumes » Tue Feb 02, 2016 6:09 pm

I think I should kill myself knowing that I will never experience this fetish for real and I know no one else that is into it. So Im a freak and all alone and Im a horrible person for having such a turn on. Im worse than Child Pornographers.

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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby Jon Smith » Tue Feb 02, 2016 7:34 pm

I always wonder about this. How in the hell could evolution possibly take this path leading to sexual fetishes that have nothing to do with it? And why must people like me, keep it a secret that we guard with our lives? (Hence my username, Jon Smith, I don't want my identity revealed). My fetishes sometimes control part of my life, I remember back in high school and college, sitting in class, I would often daydream about sinking quicksand. My fetish is not always with me, it comes and goes. When it's with me, it's practically the only thing I can think about. When it's not, I don't care about it at all, maybe even disliking it. When I daydream about it, I dream of absurd unrealistic things that will never happen, such as an entire lake of clay, silt, putty, etc. and all the perfect rainwear (major element of my fetish) that I would need to satisfy my fetish to the best possible point. I have had my fetish since I was a little kid, it's probably never going to go away.

I would rather live without any fetish. In the long run, I am much happier when I don't fetish, because fetish turns into a psychological prison.
And there is way more to explain.

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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby Northerner » Wed Feb 03, 2016 9:09 pm

SexyMuddyCostumes wrote:I think I should kill myself knowing that I will never experience this fetish for real and I know no one else that is into it. So Im a freak and all alone and Im a horrible person for having such a turn on. Im worse than Child Pornographers.
I know there are different levels of fetishization (maybe this fetish is a VERY BIG DEAL to you), but, you're 100% definitely not all alone / horrible! Look at how many people are here on this forum. (they are 99% lurkers I think).

I'd say quicksand fetish and isn't anywhere near child porn levels of unlawfulness / social stigma, but, it sounds like maybe you've had some bad experiences...
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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby MadMax359 » Thu Feb 04, 2016 6:49 am

Northerner wrote:
SexyMuddyCostumes wrote:I think I should kill myself knowing that I will never experience this fetish for real and I know no one else that is into it. So Im a freak and all alone and Im a horrible person for having such a turn on. Im worse than Child Pornographers.
I know there are different levels of fetishization (maybe this fetish is a VERY BIG DEAL to you), but, you're 100% definitely not all alone / horrible! Look at how many people are here on this forum. (they are 99% lurkers I think).

I'd say quicksand fetish and isn't anywhere near child porn levels of unlawfulness / social stigma, but, it sounds like maybe you've had some bad experiences...


for unlawfulness...if you try to join a Child Porn site, you'd be in trouble, while you can stay part of this site for--decades without a problem... being turned on by quicksand isn't unlawful at all, as long as you're working with a consenting adult... it doesn't harm anyone, unless you actually let someone drown... and if you want to experience it yourself and meet others into it, save up your money until you can afford to join Fred's crew, he asks every year for volunteers! relax, you'r with friends :twisted:
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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby MadMax359 » Thu Feb 04, 2016 6:55 am

Jon Smith wrote:I always wonder about this. How in the hell could evolution possibly take this path leading to sexual fetishes that have nothing to do with it? And why must people like me, keep it a secret that we guard with our lives? (Hence my username, Jon Smith, I don't want my identity revealed). My fetishes sometimes control part of my life, I remember back in high school and college, sitting in class, I would often daydream about sinking quicksand. My fetish is not always with me, it comes and goes. When it's with me, it's practically the only thing I can think about. When it's not, I don't care about it at all, maybe even disliking it. When I daydream about it, I dream of absurd unrealistic things that will never happen, such as an entire lake of clay, silt, putty, etc. and all the perfect rainwear (major element of my fetish) that I would need to satisfy my fetish to the best possible point. I have had my fetish since I was a little kid, it's probably never going to go away.

I would rather live without any fetish. In the long run, I am much happier when I don't fetish, because fetish turns into a psychological prison.
And there is way more to explain.


it's foolish to psychoanalyze people at a distance, but it seems to me that anything that takes control of your life to this degree sounds like an obsessive or addictive personality... so if it wasn't this fetish it could be something else, maybe something truly harmful
as for keeping it a secret, what i just said about SexyMuddyCostumes applies... keep it a secret where you have to, but use your real name as a volunteer :twisted:
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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby FFoxX » Fri Feb 05, 2016 10:57 am

I think it's not a prison but escape. And even then it's much much better than gambling or drug addiction. BUT if it's problem for you, then there is one option I've mentioned in my earlier posts.

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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby Nessie » Fri Feb 05, 2016 5:11 pm

FFoxX wrote:And even then it's much much better than gambling or drug addiction.


You have a point. I've always been sorry that I once drank a lot and I have always wished I could somehow undo those years.

But I've never been sorry about sinking in quicksand and I'd never go back and re-do my life without it.

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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby Jon Smith » Fri Feb 05, 2016 7:19 pm

Nessie wrote:
FFoxX wrote:And even then it's much much better than gambling or drug addiction.


You have a point. I've always been sorry that I once drank a lot and I have always wished I could somehow undo those years.

But I've never been sorry about sinking in quicksand and I'd never go back and re-do my life without it.

Nessie

Similar here. I do really enjoy sinking, but only half of the time. I haven't any regrets for it except for the times that somebody saw me doing it, and oh man I fucking hate it when somebody sees me :shock: :shock: :shock: :oops: :x
Also, I do have regrets about drinking, and I drink more often than I should. I drink and smoke when I get home after a stressful day at work.
Oh and getting to go sinking is far more relaxing, when I'm interested, but I rather like to sink for the excitement. Such as this. I sink to my armpits, and if I can trick myself into believing that the mud could give way at any moment, feels very thrilling, being terrified can feel good. And that brings up another mystery, why would we fetish danger?
Right now I wish I was in quicksand, but I didn't care much in my last reply.

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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby FFoxX » Sat Feb 06, 2016 4:44 am

I think the danger triggers both survival and reproduction instincts, simply because your body wants to protect it's genes in dangerous situations.

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Re: Questioning Your Fetish

Postby SinkLad » Tue Feb 09, 2016 6:11 pm

I definitely question it quite a lot, mostly because it's a somewhat dark fetish. Personally, I find scenes disappointing if there isn't a submersion, and every now and then while watching a quicksand scene, I stop and think "I'm currently spending my time watch somebody sink into ground asking for help. I chose to do this. Something is really wrong with this picture." Really, life would probably be a bit more simple if I weren't into something so weird (which doesn't help that I have other fetishes which could be seen as equally weird or more weird depending on who you ask).

In the end, though, it's fantasy and I know nobody is actually getting hurt by it, and it currently isn't causing any problems, so why not watch it if I enjoy it? As long as it stays secret, I don't have any plans to try to get purge those thoughts.
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