This is about the role of watching as part of our quicksand fantasies.... This is not about watching scenes or looking at pictures and such, which we all enjoy, but having someone watch someone else as part of the fantasy.
For example, my sinking fantasies - which I act out in my mud pit when I can - tend to include women characters watching me sink to my doom. One version has me as a bad guy fleeing through the jungle to end up in the bog... and then pleading with the jungle queen who comes upon the scene for help. All she does is stand there and watch me sink out of sight. Sometimes she'll shove me under with her foot, depending on how pissed off she is at my villainy.
The other is more sensual. In this fantasy, I've spent a weekend making love with a beautiful lady (real original, I know.. but I love the classics). While still in the afterglow, and still naked, she leads me to the marsh where she pushes me into the muck, and watches me sink to my doom while pleasuring herself. Sometimes she's a wacko, others a pagan sacrificing me to her earthen god Either way, she remains the last thing I see before the mire closes over my face.
Sometimes, she joins me, and we get to watch each other vanish after some sexy shennanigans.
I know these aren't really original or anything, but it made me wonder if anyone else has similar such fantasies of having another party watch them sink and struggle.
I''m also wondering if the qs producers and actresses out there ever found having the film crews watch them perform helps or hinders their performances. I know they are professionals, but like those who perform on stage before a live audience, do they use the energy of those watching in their work, or just blot everything out to concentrate on what they are doing in the pit?
Any insights/comments would be cool and most welcome.