New to forum and wanna feel right

[Mudusa143]

Bonjour!

I am new to this forum. Having only recently come to terms with my fetish, and only recently finding other people who feel the same, I, all of a sudden, feel like I belong here and wish I could transcend into this digi-space full time. However, I still have lots of questions for other people to see if our similarities maybe dig deeper.

1) When did you first realise your fetish exists?
2) Is your fetish sexual or only visually pleasing?
3) What is your deepest quicksand/mud fantasy be?
4) Do you have people/friends/partners who know about your fetish?
5) What is your day job?
6) Do you wish for a partner with the same fetish? OR (even better) Do you have a partner who shares your interests?

I will answer mine before, and hope you will respond too.

Answers:
1) When I was 18 year old girl at Glastonbury and the mud went overboard and at first I was avoiding it but I became enamoured by the drunk people playing in it. I have the pictures saved on my laptop, and the ones of Daily Mail and any others I can find. This I when I started watching more movies with mud then onto YouTube videos etc.
2) I would say at first it was visually, but now I feel with the videos on here, per say, its more of a sexual arousal that I experience, but I am yet to explore that side more.
3) One day, I want to perform as a damsel in distress for film for the benefit of this website. I kind of want to experience it aswell, but London is always so cold. Maybe I'll wait till summer to film something
4) No one knows. I find it difficult having no-one to talk to about it.
5) I work as a barmaid for the time being, and also studying at university.
6) That would be amazing. I don't have a partner right now.

I look forward to your answers guys xxxxxxxxx

[dlodoski]

Welcome to the forum. That's a very thoughtful introduction.

I will leave to the regulars here to discuss the finer points of your questions. But I can say with confidence that this is a nuanced fetish area with a lot of different angles of approach. In other words, there is no 'one size fits all' here. In fact, it's quite the opposite.

On a personal note, your story resonates with me in that you started out with a tactile experience (Glastonbury). It feeds into a large part of my current fantasies.

Anyways, again, welcome.

[Fred588]

Bonjour!

I am new to this forum. Having only recently come to terms with my fetish, and only recently finding other people who feel the same, I, all of a sudden, feel like I belong here and wish I could transcend into this digi-space full time. However, I still have lots of questions for other people to see if our similarities maybe dig deeper.

1) When did you first realise your fetish exists?
2) Is your fetish sexual or only visually pleasing?
3) What is your deepest quicksand/mud fantasy be?
4) Do you have people/friends/partners who know about your fetish?
5) What is your day job?
6) Do you wish for a partner with the same fetish? OR (even better) Do you have a partner who shares your interests?

I will answer mine before, and hope you will respond too.

Answers:
1) When I was 18 year old girl at Glastonbury and the mud went overboard and at first I was avoiding it but I became enamoured by the drunk people playing in it. I have the pictures saved on my laptop, and the ones of Daily Mail and any others I can find. This I when I started watching more movies with mud then onto YouTube videos etc.
2) I would say at first it was visually, but now I feel with the videos on here, per say, its more of a sexual arousal that I experience, but I am yet to explore that side more.
3) One day, I want to perform as a damsel in distress for film for the benefit of this website. I kind of want to experience it aswell, but London is always so cold. Maybe I'll wait till summer to film something
4) No one knows. I find it difficult having no-one to talk to about it.
5) I work as a barmaid for the time being, and also studying at university.
6) That would be amazing. I don't have a partner right now.

I look forward to your answers guys xxxxxxxxx

I can only answer some of your questions but will do what I can from the perspective of a video producer and long-time member here. Seeking a partner with the same interest might seem desirable but it means a relationship based on a fairly narrow range of interest. Based on more than 2/3 of a century of life experience I would suggest seeking a partner who is open-minded (not to mention having good sense, being trustworthy, and so on). I have sorta hinted at what I do for a day job - I am retired but was a professor. Now I run and own Studio 588. All of the video producers for quicksand (that I know about) are in the United States. There have been producers from Germany but I don't think any are active currently. Doing something commercially with a US based producer might actually be possible IF you are travelling but I doubt if any are going to pay your air fare. As for discussing things with others we used to have a chat room here but it is no longer available. There is a chat room available at the quicksandland.com forum although it is poorly attended.

[Maudlin]

1. Not really sure! I think it's been with me for most, if not all, of my life.
2. Both!
3. Probably having my very own mud pit to play around in with no worries about being spotted. Especially one that I created myself and can control the composition of (I actually have a crippling phobia of worms, which can be a serious obstacle when seeking out naturally-occurring mud to play in.)
4. Only a few people I've RPed with on Second Life. I tend to be a fairly reserved and private person, and I don't think I could work up the nerve to raise the subject unless I was certain that I was in company that would be receptive to it.
5. Don't have one! Living the NEET life.
6. Of course! But really, I wouldn't stop it there. I'm always happy to meet people who share my more... unique interests. It's nice just to be able to discuss such things openly without worrying about sounding like a weirdo.

(Not to hijack the thread, but as an aside note: I guess this post can serve as my introduction too, since it's only my second post here and the first in which I've spoken about myself. Hi everyone! I'm Maudlin, I'm 27 and a lifelong mud enthusiast who's probably familiar with the drawn or written work of many of you. I've been lurking the forum for a few months now, but only registered recently.)

[WesternSoupyMud]

1) When did you first realise your fetish exists?
2) Is your fetish sexual or only visually pleasing?
3) What is your deepest quicksand/mud fantasy be?
4) Do you have people/friends/partners who know about your fetish?
5) What is your day job?
6) Do you wish for a partner with the same fetish? OR (even better) Do you have a partner who shares your interests?

Welcome to the forum and the community! Also 'hi' from near Glasto myself.

Long answers because I waffle - sorry...

1) From a personal perspective, even as a youngster I felt a strange draw towards things, probably aided by the golden age of TV / film in the 80s. Quite a few programmes and nearly every cartoon had some element of peril (danger of being eaten or trapped, characters being bound by villains, and obviously mud / quicksand etc.). Obviously there was no recognition for me that this was a 'fetish' at the time, but my interests existed within my life until the mid-90s when I found the Interwebs and discovered that I wasn't the only one!

2) I don't usually get turned on seeing other people in QS or in other peril. But if I imagine myself in the situation (be it a realistic situation or something that could only happen as part of a fantasy) then that gets my motor running a little.

3) I'm a bit too fuzzy and large to be a 'damsel' , but the whole helpless thing is a major fantasy. I've probably over-thought the whole 'living mud' / 'Mother Earth' concept, but being trapped and pulled into the depths by what seems to be a living entity covers the basics. Then I have similar feelings towards other similar perils, like being coiled by big snakes and other generally stereotypical stuff.

4) Only here, I guess. And I don't say much here... so probably no-one.

5) Self-employed, although that's falling on its arse so I'll probably have to find other means of earning and existing!

6) I wouldn't mind a partner or someone close sharing a similar fetish.

[DJlurker]

Welcome to the forum!
1) When did you first realise your fetish exists?
-Hmm, in middle school, I realized I had a thing for sinking in tar(I blame The Land Before Time), then about a year later, I realized quicksand was far more accessible and safer
2) Is your fetish sexual or only visually pleasing?
-Sexual, but not hardcore.
3) What is your deepest quicksand/mud fantasy be?
I prefer ladies floating at chest-deep in sexy evening gowns with full length opera gloves. Quite a few of my stories reflect this.
4) Do you have people/friends/partners who know about your fetish?
I've mentioned QS in passing to some family members, but to my knowledge no one knows I have a fetish outright.
5) What is your day job?
I'm a janitor.
6) Do you wish for a partner with the same fetish? OR (even better) Do you have a partner who shares your interests?
Refuse to answer

[joedeep130535]

Interesting questions

1st serious mud experience at about 11years. My 1st time in deeper mud & a sexual reaction I became more & more "hooked" as I got older & puberty arrived

Definitely sexual Started masturbating in mud early on & found any muddy photos/films a turn on Not sure when I realised I had a fetish-or knew what a fetish was!! but just liked mud ,seeing girls in mud & latterly have extended this to include guys as well

I suppose I have been,& still am , very lucky to have met several people of both sexes who would join me in mud Not necessarily sexual,just nice to have company but naturally an intimate encounter is more exciting Just now I have 1 friend with a similar fetish which we both indulge

Retired-not from mud lol

A partner ? Not sure. I think it is too narrow a base to support full partnership I feel that having a friend who shares the interest may be a better solution for me

[Mynock]

1)When did you first realise your fetish exists?
Thinking back I realize it was always there, but I didn't recognize it as a fetish till I was in my teens.

2) Is your fetish sexual or only visually pleasing?
I would say both. I get off on sinking, especially the submergance part, but I definitely enjoy watching too. If I had to choose I would definitely be the guy sinking, not watching.

3) What is your deepest quicksand/mud fantasy be?
To sink in something that actually pulls you in, maybe not overwhelmingly, but with enough force that you'd have to make an effort to keep from going under or get back up.

4)Do you have people/friends/partners who know about your fetish?
Several friends and every girl I've dated know about it. Responses have varied from "Hey whatever turns you on." to " That's ok everybody has a thing they're into." to "OMG this sounds fun/sexy take me sinking!!"

5) What is your day job?
Corporate Raider.

6) Do you wish for a partner with the same fetish? OR (even better) Do you have a partner who shares your interests?
I've gotten several girlfriends to go sinking with me over the years, I don't think any of them "got" that aspect of it but they were entertained by watching me, and enjoyed the more playful playful wrestling/ wallowing/naked sexy mud massage side of things.

Good topic!

[SmileyMcDeath]

Bonjour!

I am new to this forum. Having only recently come to terms with my fetish, and only recently finding other people who feel the same, I, all of a sudden, feel like I belong here and wish I could transcend into this digi-space full time. However, I still have lots of questions for other people to see if our similarities maybe dig deeper.

1) When did you first realise your fetish exists?
2) Is your fetish sexual or only visually pleasing?
3) What is your deepest quicksand/mud fantasy be?
4) Do you have people/friends/partners who know about your fetish?
5) What is your day job?
6) Do you wish for a partner with the same fetish? OR (even better) Do you have a partner who shares your interests?

I will answer mine before, and hope you will respond too.

Answers:
1) When I was 18 year old girl at Glastonbury and the mud went overboard and at first I was avoiding it but I became enamoured by the drunk people playing in it. I have the pictures saved on my laptop, and the ones of Daily Mail and any others I can find. This I when I started watching more movies with mud then onto YouTube videos etc.
2) I would say at first it was visually, but now I feel with the videos on here, per say, its more of a sexual arousal that I experience, but I am yet to explore that side more.
3) One day, I want to perform as a damsel in distress for film for the benefit of this website. I kind of want to experience it aswell, but London is always so cold. Maybe I'll wait till summer to film something
4) No one knows. I find it difficult having no-one to talk to about it.
5) I work as a barmaid for the time being, and also studying at university.
6) That would be amazing. I don't have a partner right now.

I look forward to your answers guys xxxxxxxxx

(1) I was...well, younger than twelve. But I spent most of my free time from the time I was twelve scouring the woods for miles around for mud, the deeper the better. I Haven't been sinking for quite a long time now, due to a combination of factors. But I never lost my love.
(2) It's both. I find the feelings of (fantasy) entrapment, immersion and sinking highly arousing, and I love watching a member of the opposite sex in mud or quicksand. It's arousing and enticing and aesthetically pleasing. It appeals on an artistic level, as well as the sexual.
(3) I have several. One of my favorites I've actually written about a few times--getting ridden down into the bog while going down on a lady. When I was younger, that was pretty much my go-to fantasy. Most of my favorite fantasies involve BDSM on some level.
(4) Two people. I haven't seen them in eons.
(5) Security guard for [REDACTED]
(6) Either or both would be amazing.

[Solrex]

1) When did you first realise your fetish exists?
I remember when I was very young, maybe before the age of 8, although the exact age was lost to me. I was in the bathtub, and thinking about quicksand made my sexual organ rise up. I didn't know why at the time, but that's the first memory I have of quicksand being connected to anything sexual whatsoever.
2) Is your fetish sexual or only visually pleasing?
The only reason I would watch a video about quicksand is to imagine myself in that position. It's the idea of me sinking in quicksand and being hugged/squeezed by the mud that primarily turns me on.
3) What is your deepest quicksand/mud fantasy be?
I would love to be up to just below my shoulders, meaning my chest would be under, but barely not my shoulders. I would be at the point of buoyancy, but feel no bottom. My arms would be at my side, under the mud, and the quicksand would be pressing heavily against me, making me have to work a bit more to breathe, but not to the point that I'm going to pass out if I don't get out soon. I would enjoy being naked, but realistically I'd probably be in my swimsuit to avoid strangers treating me absolutely strange if I got caught while doing so. I would probably meditate like that for a while, maybe struggling against the pressure and maybe to go a smidge deeper. I would be in that position for the majority of the day I set aside to do that. During the days after the sink, I would probably smell the mud scent on my arm hairs that lingers to remind myself of that wonderful experience.
4) Do you have people/friends/partners who know about your fetish?
Very few people, but I have more than enough people that know about it. I think even fewer know it's a fetish.
5) What is your day job?
I am currently trying to apply for school, with some money saved up for it.
6) Do you wish for a partner with the same fetish? OR (even better) Do you have a partner who shares your interests?
I don't necessarily need a partner with the same fetish, but at least one that's accepting of it and willing to consider having sex with me in deep mud sometime, or even at the very least give me the sexual pressure sating I need through other means, such as being tied up, having a pet ball python, or even hypnosis to feel unable to move and completely helpless while she is able to do with me as she pleases. I would be readily willing to let my partner bite me or I would bite her if that's what she wanted, but I personally don't care either way. I am currently single, and if I lined up the multidimensional Venn diagram of everything I want in a partner, it seems like it would be very narrow to have someone that would accept my kinks and be a part of the religion I am a part of so we can live happily together in our faith's afterlife; not to mention as many shared interests as possible.

If a certain spot seems to be lacking in details, that's most likely intentional, but if you want to ask about something, feel free to, just don't expect me to give every last detail you want. Stuff like my job and my religion I don't want to get into, especially religion since I believe that's against the rules.