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The background is red, naturally enough, because we’re looking at the mind of REDjak.
Four elements are shown. My recently discovered quicksand fetish with Lois Nettleton struggling nicely in some jungle mud. My big breast fetish, which is represented by Tundi Horvath, a big bust model from the 70’s. My bondage fetish is represented by the cover of bondage magazine and my long hair fetish which is represented by an appropriate image.
Please note that these four elements are shown separately and not connected in any way to each other. These were early days and everything was in a state of flux. I just knew that I liked these things, but I didn’t know why or how they fitted together.
This was long before the internet, so satisfying these urges wasn’t as easy as it is now. If I wanted to see some quicksand action, I had to find it on tv in Tarzan movies or in comics. Big breasts could be found in magazines, no problem. Long hair was almost impossible to find outside of rare sightings in real life. Bondage was another story. Rough and ready examples could be found on the covers of detective magazines, where bound and gagged girls were sometimes shown being threatened by villains.
But a breakthrough was eventually made by travelling to the big city and buying dedicated bondage magazines showing women and girls tied bound and gagged in expert ways. There was no turning back after this and I can honestly say that I don’t know which is the stronger fetish within me – quicksand or bondage.
Happily, the two can neatly coexist in fantasy form when bound and gagged damsels find themselves trapped and sinking into deep and deadly quicksand. It was totally impossible to find these two overlapping kinks in any mainstream media at that time and the internet didn’t exist, so the only option was to draw these things… in secret.
I won’t dwell on the lack of quality of my efforts and none now exist. But they fulfilled their purpose.
We shortly move on to a second diagram, which illustrates the current state of my fetish cluster. But before going there I’d just like to mention one thing. I can’t speak for anyone else, but over time I’ve noticed something about myself. When it comes to matters of sex, sexual attraction and sexual arousal in the context my fetish clusters and my fantasies, I’ve changed.
Seeing women thrashing about in quicksand while they sink used to be enough. But it isn’t now. Seeing women tied and gagged in simple but effective ways used to be enough. But it isn’t now. Seeing women with extremely large natural breasts used to be enough for me. But it isn’t now. Seeing women with very long, thick, wavy and luxuriant hair used to be enough. But it isn’t now.
Nowadays I want to see more than women in simple quicksand peril. Don’t get me wrong. As a long-time, hard-core, dedicated quicksand fetishist I still enjoy seeing women in this kind of peril. But something within me wants more than that basic equation. As I’ve already mentioned, there exists a neat way of linking two fetishes together so that each strengthens the other, enhancing the overall effect and making it more satisfying.
A woman’s peril in quicksand is multiplied a hundredfold if she’s also helplessly bound and gagged. The possibility of her saving herself by her own efforts now becomes impossible. Overhanging vines that could be grabbed are now useless to her. The quicksand has changed its status from a danger that can be avoided with enough effort and a bit of luck into something much more terrible. It’s now become a certain death trap. Only rescue by an outside party can change the equation.
At this point I must nod in Max’s direction. This seems to be his ‘thing’. His fantasy of choice. He’s the white knight who saves the tied and gagged damsel from being sucked under, just in the nick of time. Then, having saved the maiden, he reaps his due reward in the form of her gratitude.
He seamlessly integrates an interest in quicksand and bondage, adding to it his personal preference for ladies who are well-endowed in the bust department. Being a big breast fetishist as well as a quicksand and bondage fetishist, I’m happy to say that there’s a lot of overlap between him and me. Ok, we diverge in how we want our particular fantasies to end, but we are both big enough to allow each other the necessary leeway. We take pleasure more in how we agree than how we disagree.
Returning to the idea of wanting more, I’ve found that there are two ways this works for me.
First, by bringing other fetishes into the mix. Adding bondage to quicksand being a good example. My big breast and long hair fetishes can easily be added by creating a fantasy where everything mixes and works together. The end result is a helplessly bound and gagged woman with big breasts and very long hair, trapped and sinking into quicksand. So, here we have four distinct and separate fetishes seamlessly integrated, each complimenting each other and each enhancing the overall effect of the fantasy.
I’m sure that many, if not most of us in this forum, do something similar in our minds. Whether you do the sinking yourself or fantasize about someone else sinking, if another fetish or kink can be brought into the mix, then you’ll probably do it. It doesn’t matter what it is, so long as it can work in a quicksand or deep mud scenario.
For some people it’s an item of clothing. Various types of boots, a uniform, certain kinds of gloves, a distinctive hat or other piece of headwear. Or something about body shape or some other aspect of the person. Red hair, long legs, a hairless body, a hairy body, very full lips or some exaggeration of the breasts or hips. Mixing up genders and species seems to be popular, with futa and furries being good examples. The list is endless and so are possibilities.
The other way that I’ve wanted more is to overemphasize and/or exaggerate a currently existing fetish, rather than mixing it with another one. Taking my three core fetishes – quicksand, bondage and big breasts – here’s how I think this works.
Quicksand itself is already a dangerous thing, so how can its threat be exaggerated, enhanced and strengthened? I’ve done this by shifting the location of where a quicksand pit might be from somewhere in the jungle, on a beach or in a quarry to a secret, hidden and secure underground facility. While the other locations offer the chance of rescue by passers-by or another character in a storyline, the underground one does not. Here the damsel in question is beyond outside help and the pits themselves offer no hope of escape. Everything has been constructed and arranged with the sole aim of putting the girl into a lethal situation and watching her grim ending in the quicksand.
The locked, sealed, airtight and sound-proofed drowning chambers used by Redjak, the Quicksand Killer are simply the result of this process taken to its logical conclusion.
If you want more out of a bondage fetish the best and easiest way to achieve this result is to go beyond what is needed to tie up and gag a young woman. We are talking fantasy here, so going beyond can mean going to wildly improbable and impractical levels of bondage. The key point here isn’t realism – we’ve long gone past that – it’s whatever works to make the fantasy better, stronger and more satisfying. And that’s an entirely personal thing. What triggers one person won’t necessarily trigger another.
Logging on to DeviantArt you can readily find examples where people have taken their fetishes (not just quicksand or bondage or anything else mentioned so far) and, using drawings, photomanips and AI, have made their fantasies real. Since I’ve just been discussing bondage, there are images on DA that far outstrip the levels of exaggeration that satisfy me. The same goes for almost any kind of fetish you can think of. Much of it can be found there if you look around hard enough.
Anyway, returning to the topic of exaggerating bondage for greater effect, I usually add more ropes, knots and cinches. Bigger gags, tighter blindfolds, hoods, adding chains and padlocks, etc., etc. My mummification fetish easily blends with quicksand and bondage fetishes if I create images of helplessly mummified women who are also tightly bound in rope and massively gagged. I can up the ante even more by weighting the damsel down so that her concrete-encased feet drag her under. It’s not about being realistic any more. It’s about finding new ways to add new things to an already-existing fetish to spice it up even more.
Lastly, my big breast fetish has recently undergone a quantum leap. What started out in my teens as a desire to see women with very large, but still natural breasts, has been transformed by what AI can do for me. Now I can easily create realistic-looking images of attractive women with improbably large, nicely shaped breasts. In the real world this would be impossible. The limitations of flesh and blood and the effects of gravity simply won’t allow it. Again, this is not about realism. It’s about satisfying one’s fetishes and kinks, even if that means going far, far beyond what is real, what is natural and what is possible.
So, having laid the groundwork in this post, perhaps it’s time for me to move on to the next. Where I will illustrate where my fetish cluster is now. We can compare how I am today with how I used to be back in the 70’s. By comparing one diagram with another.
Given that I’m no longer satisfied with how my core fetishes used to be, there’s been a lot of changes in the interim. My tastes have evolved, diversified and grown. Also, because I want more out of my fetishes, they’ve deepened and become more exaggerated, become more extreme. Following the kinds of processes I’ve described above. Linking two or more compatible fetishes into a stronger and more satisfying fantasy. Finding new ways to spice things up. Always looking for novelties and new angles. Trying to find new ways to breathe new life into tried-and tested fantasies.
As we will see.
Thank you,
Redjak.
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