Finally showed my wife...

[Weapon X]

Most of you do not know, but I had recently remarried back in February, after a nasty divorce 3 years ago. I never told my ex-wife of my fetish (she was Mormon, so that was kind of out of the question). I told my new wife of my secret not too long ago...and while I was at work last week, she had a chance to view a few of Dave's DVD's (Alone in the Quicksand, and Inevitably Quicksand), which was kind of a surprise to me. And also surprisingly, she liked some of it!

The part she didn't like was the terror that was mainly found in Alone in the Quicksand. Women that were terrified, screaming and crying as they sank to their doom...but what she really enjoyed was the sensual, sexual playing as in "Desert Mudbath" in Inevitably Quicksand...and she has confessed that she would like to do this for me (WOOOHOOOO!!! )!

I must admit, this went better than I had planned. My biggest fear with telling her was that she would think I was sick or messed up. After explaining the best I could of my fantasies, I also showed her the deeply hidden stash of saved images, gif files, and videos that I had saved on my laptop over the years. I have never actually showed anyone before. And she still understood.......and still wants to find a nice deep mudhole to sink for me in, and for us to sink together.

I just wanted to share this most excellent development...I know it can be VERY difficult for alot of us to open up to others about our love for all things muddy and sinky, but I am very glad I did! A big THANK YOU to Dave, Fred, Robert, Kaol, Nessie, Duncan, Mike, and many others for sharing your work...and providing a place for us to congregate!!

[Vandercat]

Awesome, I'm glad things worked out for you! I hope you two have fun

[Duncan Edwards]

For my tiny part in it, you're very welcome. I'm also very happy for you since you seem to have found what I suspect so many of us here wish we had, an understanding partner. She may not always share your level of enthusiasm for the subject but a little participation will go a long way. Always remember to keep her in mind and reciprocate. That's an endless task in any relationship.

[tempman]

that's great to hear! bring them over to the dark side
I find that if you're in a long relationship that stuff like this doesn't really freak people out. especially if you ease into it, or "discover" it with them. For example... with my first girlfriend in 1995, we went on a walk around a quicksand-y beach. we both ended up sinking to our knees and later that night I told her how excited and fun that felt (it did!). The only part I hid was how long I had liked it for.

My fiancee knows everything that I like and, some of it she really likes too. You'd be surprised at what people like if someone close to them is into something unusual. I didn't know I'd like Star Trek or nerdy sci-fi's like that (even though my job and education background classes me as ultra nerd ) or sensual massages. But she sure showed me!

[Nessie]

I'm glad to have been mentioned as instrumental in helping you confess.

As for being "sick or messed up", that's an issue I've tried to address in recent years with my video work. Yes, a quicksand scene shows somebody sinking and terrified and some of the endings are grim but this grim sinking suffering death thing SIMPLY ISN'T REALLY THE WAY IT IS.

I've shown a lot of real bogs and explorational clips. And most of what I shot last year, even if dramatic in nature and ending in submersion with an implied grim ending, showed me popping out of the quicksand and playing in the peat bog.

I hope that's comforting to any spouses who don't get what's going on.

I'm happy for you. Not everybody is able to tell. You must have somebody pretty special.

Nessie

[hiimawesome]

Good for you mate! Im absolutely terrified to tell anyone lol. Think theyll call me some sort of freak >.< But then my last girlfriends foot fetish still kinda bothers me

[Electric Katfish]

Nicely done sir! Huzzah! And congratulations! There's real power in having someone that knows your secrets — and loves you.

[IcarusJ]

That's awesome man! I've actually never gotten a bad response from people when I tell them about it, which isn't very often though.

[Weapon X]

Thank you for all the kind words. I hope that everyone is able to find what I did. And Icarus J....I'm hoping that my wife and I may someday re-enact that pudding bathtub comic that you posted not long ago! We're already looking for a health resort/spa that has mudbathing. Any ideas? We are in west central Illinois.

[IcarusJ]

Thank you for all the kind words. I hope that everyone is able to find what I did. And Icarus J....I'm hoping that my wife and I may someday re-enact that pudding bathtub comic that you posted not long ago! We're already looking for a health resort/spa that has mudbathing. Any ideas? We are in west central Illinois.

Oh my! Very flattering! I might warn you of physical difficulties for the exact scenario though. I'm a bit of a weakling myself so I can't say for sure, but I believe the way James lifts Robyn whilst pushing her against the wall would be quite strainful on the back even for a fit individual. I wouldn't discourage you from trying altogether, especially since I'm insanely interested to know if it's possible, but if it feels difficult at all please don't push it and possibly hurt yourself. I also can't say how healthy getting a dairy product like pudding into a woman's vagina is, so I'd find a way to research that first as well. Tell me if you find anything out. But again, safety first.

Anyway, happy mudding to you and your wife!