Duncan Edwards wrote:Dude, this is just getting weird now. We went from history to some bizarre irrelevant conversation with a non-believer on Deviantart. We've already had an equally irrelevant side bar or two on personalities. Not sure what you're after but I think this is over for now. You might give it another try when your motivation and focus are a little sharper.
The side bar points out the problem of what to do, how to document, and should we even mention people who have caused problems in the community.
My experience on Deviantart stressed the need to document our history and provide a guide to others how to set up a group to avoid the problems we have encountered in the past.
Above case in point, It is my opinion that the group in question needs to add a rule to ban fatal sequences that involve minors (let alone “mature” content).
It is not that I believe that the group is run poorly. I do not believe that.
It is that we have achieved a point in the evolution of the movement where the problem needs to be addressed for the sake of it’s future direction.
DangerGirl wrote:Sorry, dk_angel7, but I have to agree with her. You can't apply the standards of a small community of fetishists across the board to the population at large. There may be people who masturbate while watching the PowerPuff Girls get punched, or kids getting slimed on old episodes of "You Can't Do That on Television." Does that mean that the shows should be banned, just to keep some "pervert" from gettting his jollies?
If she's not a member of the QS fetish community, nothing anyone says will make an impact because she has no concept of what a QS fetish is. I'll admit, using the term "loli" raises my eyebrows given the literary context, but the girl's comments seem to have been made in a humorous rather than sexual light. What is the nature of the other pictures on this particular DeviantArt user's page?
I am not positive if its my inability to communicate complex ideas or not, but I feel that you have entirely missed my point.
I do not give a damn about other fetishes. I only care about this one (QS).
I tried point out to someone who just poked her nose into our community. I tried to tell her that we had a long-standing tradition of 15+ years that we do not encourage sequences or interpretations that involve the death of a minor.
That is what I tried to do.
Unfortunately, I got a response worthy of a 2010’s snot-nosed and stuck-up brat that she was.
There was nothing I could do about it afterwards since I have no admin’ authority in the group.
The comment had nothing to do about any sexual aspect. It was a drawing of a young girl whom looks like she is in middle school or younger. The comment was about a potential “snuffing” of the character.
True, we can not stop the world from “jacking off” at literally anything that triggers that reaction. Nor, can we stop someone who has fantasies about the death of little children. But, we can discourage it within our community.
By the way I looked at her page, she may be into toes and being eaten. Does not look like she was heavy into QS. If she is, she is quite new to our interest. She has the “interests” that connect to ours very well.