Postby beachbum » Sun Jan 05, 2014 9:32 am
I became interested in quicksand when I was younger when I watched the Guns of darkness movie. For some reason, I became fascinated when I watched the quicksand scene, and I was confused why I was so aroused. I also realized I had a stuck fetish (which compliments my quicksand fetish) when I watched the movie Rawhide where the woman could not squeeze through the hole they made in the jail cell.
I would explore my fetish in my early teen years by pretending to be under the covers sinking in quicksand. Although this was a fun thing, there was definitely a sexual component to it. Once I got tired of that, when my parents were out, I would explore my stuck fetish my trying to fit under the bed, and squeeze through things. I didn't know why it was so erotic but I absolutely loved it.
Since then movies like Nightmare on Elm Street III, Tarzan Lost in the Jungle, and other movies with quicksand peaked my interest. My fetish was mostly subdued until I discovered it on the internet and this site (formally DeepSinking) where I really had a chance to explore and have access. But instead of thinking of myself being stuck in quicksand, my interest changed to women sinking in quicksand.
For years while I was single, I always thought that maybe it would be a great compliment in my life to meet someone with the same interests in sinking in quicksand. I kept the idea open for years, and chatted with people, both on and off this site, who may have a real life interest in sinking in quicksand since that was my ultimate goal. My ex-girl friend (who I did not meet on this site) did not have a quicksand fetish but she enjoyed being stuck in places, which was really enjoyable. But for the practicalities in life, she was not the person for me.
Now being 41 and married, my wife has no interest in being stuck or having a quicksand fetish, and that is comfortable for me. But I always think about sinking, even found a nice mudhole by my house this fall which I tried a few times. it is tough though maintaining the balance between the normal life and my interests and fetishes in sinking in quicksand and being stuck, and that is the challenge for me. Just like other groups I belong to, I always hope and look for groups interested in sinking in quicksand to do as a fun thing and to be plutonic about it. But I think the sexual component gets in the way which makes it difficult.
Sorry that was a bit beyind the scope of the topic, but feels nice to share my story.