Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

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Re: Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

Postby PM2K » Sat Feb 07, 2015 1:32 am

Two dear friends of mine know, though it took some time to work up the courage to tell them. But we believe in full disclosure. :D They're cool with it.

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Postby YerK » Sat Feb 07, 2015 8:04 am

I had a friend during highschool that I lost track of after I graduated. Years later, we met up again on some-or-another forum, and found out we were both quicksand & mud fans. (lost track of him again, after that)

My father figured it out while I was a kid. I told my wife while we were dating. (she wanted no part of mud, though)

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Postby Conspiracy101 » Fri Feb 13, 2015 7:06 am

To this day only two women know of my interests in quicksand. Several years back I told a girl I had been dating for several months. Her reaction was kind of funny because at first, like I'd imagine most people would, she had no clue what I meant by saying I enjoy watching women struggle in quicksand. The initial confusion was quickly washed away by curiousity and excitement. Sadly I didn't really get to explore it further with her, but I also told my now wife who reacted in a similar manner. Thankfully my wife is perfectly fine with my interests and indulged inthe fetish herself, to a lesser extent obviously.
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Re: Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

Postby nachtjaeger » Sat Feb 14, 2015 1:20 am

Well, my Lady Wife knows, of course. She's totally cool with it, though not able to participate due to various muscle & joint issues. And the forum members I have met in person or who I keep in touch with on Facebook, etc. And the models I got to work with, obviously. I showed a buddy of mine a QS video once, he didn't find it sexy. He's teased me about it a couple of times, so he obviously knows I'm "into" that.
Thinking back, my first girlfriend knew also, but we never got a chance to go find a bog for us to sink in. Any time we snuck off in the woods, we weren't thinking about quicksand. :oops: I mentioned the "mud" aspect to my second girlfriend, but she didn't like mud, so. . .
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Re: Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

Postby mudxdresser » Sat Feb 14, 2015 9:46 am

Most everybody I know knows, assuming that is, that they know me well enough to mention sexual topics. Even known to be a crossdresser at work and they tried to fire me for it. Deliberately live in a city with a lot of crossdressers, can only wish there were a similar one where having a mud fetish was popular!

Sure wasn't always that way, mud was a big secret and though I was good at keeping it a secret, well, it just got to be too restrictive to do so mentally so I told pretty much everyone I knew and showed them video to nail the point home and to prevent me ever going back to that horrible keeping it a secret world. Best decision I ever made but don't think decisions like that don't have a cost. Wife almost immediately divorced me, parents pretty much shunned me as though I were gay. Most of my friends did one of two things, either sort of forget I ever said it 'cause that was not an activity we share, or, tell me all sorts of kinky secrets about their sex lives I'd never even suspected.

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Postby nachtjaeger » Sat Feb 14, 2015 4:10 pm

Always amazes me how intolerant people can be, especially when it's something that doesn't affect them, or the "strange" person's ability to do a job, look after kids, etc. I know people who are "in the closet" about so many things. Some are LGBTQIWhatever, some are non-Christian or Atheist, some have odd sexual fantasies, etc. Two of my coworkers over the years have "transitioned" male-to-female, and so many people got all bent out of shape. This is the exact same person you've been working with for years- WTF is your problem? It was so bad for this one lady that the company had to provide her with her own bathroom, because she wasn't welcome in either the men's or ladies' room. :x

mudxdresser wrote:Most everybody I know knows, assuming that is, that they know me well enough to mention sexual topics. Even known to be a crossdresser at work and they tried to fire me for it. Deliberately live in a city with a lot of crossdressers, can only wish there were a similar one where having a mud fetish was popular!

Sure wasn't always that way, mud was a big secret and though I was good at keeping it a secret, well, it just got to be too restrictive to do so mentally so I told pretty much everyone I knew and showed them video to nail the point home and to prevent me ever going back to that horrible keeping it a secret world. Best decision I ever made but don't think decisions like that don't have a cost. Wife almost immediately divorced me, parents pretty much shunned me as though I were gay. Most of my friends did one of two things, either sort of forget I ever said it 'cause that was not an activity we share, or, tell me all sorts of kinky secrets about their sex lives I'd never even suspected.
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Re: Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

Postby somebodyelse » Sat Feb 14, 2015 9:03 pm

When I was younger (elementary/middle school age), there were quite a few people who knew, and it was pretty much a big joke (one of my many (and less derogatory) nicknames during that period was "Quicksand"), and nobody really cared that much (though I guess they did think it was a little weird), except, of course, for my parents (especially my mom, who thought it was a "sick habit," and one of many things that made my dad say "just knock it off" (Sorry Dad, pretty much impossible)). I ended up more or less keeping it to myself for many years. I did tell some of the girls I dated, and surprisingly enough, most didn't have a problem with it (a couple, including one I almost married, were pretty interested, and even talked about maybe us finding some so they could sink in it (there were other (and more important) reasons why I didn't marry them)). My ex never knew, and probably would not have appreciated it anyway (it would have been just something else for her to yell at me about, so I didn't go there, and besides, she could have been in a coma and still whooped my a$$ :lol: ).

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Re: Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

Postby DJlurker » Mon Feb 16, 2015 5:21 pm

I think the only one who might have had any inkling of my fetish was my cousin, when he transferred my downloaded QS stuff from an old, defunct hard drive to a new computer. He didn't press the issue, though, and that was years ago.

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Re: Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

Postby gluednylonfeet » Mon Feb 23, 2015 10:04 am

My wife knows I'm into quicksand and glue, but that's about it. And, despite her insistence that she is totally cool with it, we have never explored either in our 8 years together. She's not much of a sexual person to begin with, so we really don't do much of anything these days at all :roll:

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Re: Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

Postby newgirl27 » Wed Feb 25, 2015 5:20 pm

I have only told 3 people about it. Only one person knows the extent of my fetish however. I'm a female and I feel a little different having this fetish. I don't really know how to explain it to anyone so it's just you folks here from now on that will ever know about this.


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