Anyone else know about your quicksand fetish?

[YerK]

My ex-wife LOVED the quicksand fetish and when we were fucking, I told her stories of sinking into the mud. THEN CAME A DIVORCE and her defense lawyer WROTE IT ALL UP IN LEGAL DETAIL and that more or less destroyed sharing it forever thereafter. I have shared it only a few times with second wife but even then whenever I go there, I am back with HER again and become disgusted. Will guarantee that reading it as a legal festish is horrible and destructive. It also guaranteed that nobody in my family could SUPPORT ME LIVE in the courtroom. I went through it all alone.

Wow. I've been doing divorces a few years now (I am an attorney) and I've come across some low-life people, but that is definitely a new level of hitting below the belt. A friend of mine retired after 20 years of doing family law, and her statement on this is, "People going through a divorce are F'ing crazy!"

I am surprised, however, that a quicksand fetish could be part of a divorce. (unless actually going out into the mud was the only way she could get laid) I'm tempted to say I wish I'd been your attorney, in that I think I could have made her look like quite an ass over that. (I may have been able to talk to your family, too)

[beachbum]

I am an attorney also. I don't do family law, but I tend just to be cautious and keep my quicksand fetish separate from my private life. It was really fun experiencing with my ex-girlfriend, and there are times where I would just want to have one day back to sink again in the mud and quicksand bays around here which was so exciting. Kind of like an old band that gets together for a reunion. It is really a non-issue with my wife and I do some mudruns which is somewhat a substitute, but not the same. I still enjoy discussing stories and interests, especially true stories, and pretty much left at that for now.

[scooterjack]

I told my wife before we got married, while we were having some beers. She seemed aroused herself, evidenced by the fact we had sex right after I told her, and I think we were both thinking about quicksand during that sex session. A little while later, she always wore these tight, khaki, lara croft style shorts while she was doing yard work, or working around the house, and I would always imagine her sinking in those shorts, because she did look like a safari damsel. It almost seemed like she was doing it intentionally, because she would bend over right in front of me, with her butt inches from my face in those tight shorts, while she was picking up laundry or something. She eventually threw those shorts away because they were too tight, butt I secretly retreived the shorts out of the garbage, so maybe I can get her to wear them, and sink in one of those great studio 588 peat bogs.

[Nessie]

Okay, folks.

Now you all know that I went on VICE.

I didn't bother to share this information with anyone outside this community. There are three non-quicksand people that know about my mud thing -- but the rest of my world is ignorant.

I have thought very carefully about what I will say if people who were not told do find this show, and I am not worried about it. There is no longer a career to consider. And I'm getting up there enough in age to be a cranky person who does not care much about the opinions of others.

I think enough of the people who are close to me to believe that they are better people than jerks who will reject me.

However, the fact is that I have not actually said anything to people.

I am still waiting for the deluge. The curiosity. The questions.

I am waiting to be recognized on the street and asked for my autograph by total strangers.

I am waiting for a lucrative invitation to star on nationwide talk shows.

Where is all this?

Did we and our quicksand just get lost in the swamp of Internet weirdness?

Nessie

[PM2K]

It's funny... I do remember feeling for years there was something off about me for being so into quicksand and deep mud, and watching attractive ladies sink in it. Then I found the community and realizes "hey, I may not be as weird as I thought I was!"

When you compare our fetish to so many others out there... ours comes off as pretty mild. Not sure if I'm relieved or disappointed to discover that... but I suspect the vast majority of folks out there when discovering our fetish will simply shrug their shoulders and move on. A handful will freak, but I suspect they'd freak at anything unfamiliar to them... and maybe shouldn't be on the net at all unless they want to cause themselves a stroke.

[Jon Smith]

I have had this fetish for literally my entire life (yes, 22 years, since I was a baby) and none of my friends or family know a pinch of it, or that I even have a fetish. I have expressed some of it on these forums, I only registered a few days ago but actively browsed this site anonymously for the last 3 years starting 2012. It wasn't until recently that I decided “well, why don't I just register...” But the quicksand fetish usually must involve rainwear, or related. (Waders, drysuits, rainsuits, etc.)
However, there are some people who know because of my sinking adventures as a little kid, sometimes I had to be rescued a few times by them.